Yesterday i happen to bump into this (successmagazine.com) site accidentally and immediately i added it to my favourites. Sometimes when all what you want is pure inspiration, successmagazine.com could be a potential destination for you too.
In this article which was found on this page ‘1-on1: Creating a Full Life’ just read the answer given to the question
‘I’d like to make a difference with my life and create a lasting, positive impact on the world, but I am not famous. Can ordinary people create a legacy?’ just read the reply below given by Amanda Gore
‘ Golly, yes. Being a parent who makes their child feel loved, secure, safe and confident would be at the top of my list. Being a friend who is there no matter what or a partner who accepts your spouse for who the spouse really is and still loves him or her. Smiling at someone who feels alone, helping a frightened child or someone in need. All of these create a legacy every day. We confuse being famous with being worthy and making a contribution. There is a big difference. When you give someone an opportunity to be independent, confident and exposed to new ideas, you don’t just have an impact; you help someone transform their life. You never know what believing in someone or being kind will do for them. You may never realize the true influence your love and support has on another. But if you are steadfast in your faith in them, miracles can happen. No one is ordinary. We all can be extraordinary. We just have to tap into our divine nature and shine it on others. That’s the most profound legacy you can leave. ‘
How diferent everything could possibly be if we stop judging or profiling people we associate with and accept them for who they are. We never see the true beauty of someone since we are too busy judging them rather than accepting them. How much do we try to change someone into something which he or she never is? If we can just accept and fall in love with the individual for who he or she is………. If we can just say ‘I love you for who you are’ instead of ’I love you for who i want you to be’ or ‘I love you for whom i think you will be’………
We’ll only be left with frustration and despair as long as we deny this simple truth. Just learn to accept he or she for what he or she really is! We just cannot defy the rules of nature!
